Boleh refer fatwa majlis agama utk info lebih tepat

https://muftiwp.gov.my/artikel/irsyad-fatwa/irsyad-fatwa-umum/4492-irsyad-al-fatwa-siri-ke-506-perlukah-mandi-wajib-untuk-perempuan-disebabkan-beronani-masturbasi-sekalipun-tidak-keluar-air-mani

Tp yg saya rahu, wajib mandi wajib kalau

1. Keluar air mani.
2. Bersetubuh dgn H (penetration sex, foreplay tidak perlu)

Kebiasaan klimaks hanya terjadi sekali, yg boleh terjadi byk kali cuma orgasm. Klimaks tandanya, keluar air mani, rasa penat dan puas, dan dah tak rasa bernafsu lagi. Orgasm cuma keluar air ghairah atau mazi, rasa penat dan puas, cuma masih rasa bernafsu dan kita akan still rasa nk disentuh, dibelai, dimanja, dan masih nk meneruskan senggama dgn H.

Ni just based on my reading ye dear,

Technically no

Sbb, walaupun dlm air squirting ni ada urea, creatine dan uric acid, which are component yg sama dan mmg keluar dari lubang kencing, tp dia x 100% sama.

Squirting ni kebiasaannya berlaku sbb rangsangan di bahagian g spot & klitoris dan dia bukan disebabkan utk perkumuhan tp dia membantu…

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Hi dear,

Since you dh x lama lagi nk nikah, then kena betul² firm both of you & your partner plan for kids.

So BINCANG dgn partner, bila you & him prefer utk ada anak? Once dh agree to a decision, lets say 1 year after marriage, then discuss what kind of contraception yg you & your partner ok, condom? pills? pancut luar?etc… Pastikan bincang dgn…

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Hi dear, so sorry to hear what you are facing. Its to be expected but should not be normalized. Seeloknya kena discuss dan commit utk kekerapan yg botb H n W ok.

Kena slow talk dan jgn salahkan siapa². Kita kena faham, bincang ni bukan nk tengok siapa betul, siapa salah. Tp kita nk sama² bahagia.

So, masakkan mknn kegemaran H. Puji H lebih sikit a…

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I would say, FMP, lebih senang faham tp lebih ringkas, halal sex guide ada info lebih bnyk and lebih detail, mcm posisi dan anggota sensitif. So for beginner, elok baca fmp, utk info yg lebih baca halal sex guide.

H jenis sensitif dgn bau I, so pagi² I pakai perfume yg dia suka n prepare brekfast yg “bertenaga” utk dia. Time ni dia dh start tanya² dh “ada apa² ke harini?” 🤭

Bila smpai office, dlm lunch hour tu, I mesej la “balik cepat tau, rindu la” or “mlm ni nk try position baru tak?” or “mlm ni I ada nk pakai baju baru”.

So time ni mmg x keruan la dia ba…

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Penting utk bincang dan set rules (apa yg u suka dan apa yg dia x suka).

1. Cakap apa yg you x nak dia buat. Bagi sbb, dosa, sayang, etc…

2. Cakap apa yg you suka dia buat, kalau dh bernafsu sgt, puasa, of sibukkan diri dgn ibadah, etc…

But of course, share jgk apa yg you boleh tolong, contoh, kalau dia bernafsu sgt, dia boleh balik jumpa you or…

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In my opinion,

Kepuasan ada 2

Orgasm – Puas tp still nk teruskan bersama dan kalau H x teruskan, kita akan rasa kecewa, rasa x disayangi, rasa x cukup, rasa suami x beri yg terbaik. Biasanya hanya keluar air mazi dan air ghairah shj

Klimaks – Puas, yg kita dah tak larat nk bersama. Kita x rasa happy, rasa disayangi dan rasa H berikan yg terbaik.…

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1. Kegel, boleh membantu kawalan otot pelvis.

2. Orgasm @ klimaks tahap maksima, suami kena main peranan utk foreplay dan beri kepuasan maksima. Only then isteri boleh hasilkan air ghairah dlm kuantiti yg bnyk. Kena rangsang bahagian sensitif isteri dgn sehabis baik

3. Kesihatan, kalau isteri sakit, sgt susah utk capai orgasm dan kepuasan seksual

4.…

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Betul,

From my reading, actually utk both men and women, having sex is better than not. Sbb bila x bersama, perubahan hormon dlm badan x balance. Activity bersama actually helps the hormonal imbalance and emotional need of both men and women.

So betul, enjoy je your honeymoon phase ni. Lama sikit, bila dh terbiasa, both of you akan slow down and…

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1. Is there anything thats bugging you? Kerja? House chores? Sakit? Keluarga mentua? If so, then settle these things first. Sbb we as woman need peace of mind when we want to engage in a romantic situation.

2. Did your H foreplay you enough? Do your H knows, where is your sensitive body part? Did he foreplay those parts? If no, then start exploring…

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1. Jgn la sampai totally dark smpai x nampak langsung, pakai lampu tidur, supaya malap² sikit. X gelap sgt, x terang sgt.

2. Bab tahu lubang vagina tu, I rasa you x perlu risau, mostly lelaki diorg pon nervous utk mlm pertama ni, so diorg pon akan buat research diorg sendiri. Tp kalau you nk tolong, boleh beli e book halal sex and share it with…

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It just plain trust dear,

If you trust your H, just let him do it.

Tp, another tips yg I boleh bagi, minta H foreplay you dgn cara yg you selesa dan biasa dulu. Contoh, kissing, play with your nipple, fingering, etc…

Once dh buat tu, and you dah high and selesa, baru bagitau kat H yg you dh ready utk dia lick your vagina.

Bila dia dh buat kat you,…

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Kalau you dah siap2 buang air kecil sebelum bersama, then masa bersama kalau dtg rasa nak terkencing tu biarkan je sister. Itu bukan air kencing, tp air ghairah. Its actually a form of orgasm. Depends on the person, ada org akan keluar banyak dan terpancut, kita panggil squirting, ada org just keluar sikit tp akan rasa sedap.

Tp utk klimaks, H kena…

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