hahaha, betul ckp ninanino, kalau awal2 kawin tu mmg tgh hangat lg, klu H I dlu, dia ckp senang je, kalau siang2 tu jadi ustazah je kat rumah 🤣. Kalau tak, mmg menggugat iman dia ckp. Lepas tu kena igtkan suami, nk byr kafarah sbb bersama dgn sengaja siang ramadan ni bukan sikit ye. Refer…

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Eh, bukan, i refer yg Kak K punya, Halal Sex Guide

dia dh memang 1 set dear, x boleh beli sikit2 😁

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My advice, belajar sikit² ilmu malam pertama, and plan jgk, sama ada nk all out? Or just nk cuddle, or nk kene pakai protection?

Yg selebihnya you just follow his lead. Tp kalau you ok, you boleh jugak initiate sikit dan maybe prepare baju “cantik” 🤭

Hi, maybe need abit more context to your story, before we can help. So what actually happened?

1. Apa yg you express kat dia?

2. Dia sakit apa? demam? selesema? covid?

3. Cold treatment mcm mana yg dia bg kat you?

4. Dia langsung x cotact je dgn you lepas tu? thats not a red flag to you?

5. Ada tanya dia x, kenapa dia bg cold treatment tu? apa yg buat…

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Depends, ikut keselesaan dan preferance H. Lentikkan badan antara reaksi yg boleh dibuat. Selain tu moaning, sambil kita usap kepala dan rambut suami. Personally my H suka I moaning. So itu la…

most of lub yg brand biasa mcm durex or woooman, xda masalah. Unless you beli kat website pelik2 😅. I pernah baca, kalau nk guna yg organic mcm minyak zaitun pon boleh, tp kadang2 org x selesa guna yg oil base, so boleh guna yg water base, tp mostly inorganic la.

yup, mmg akan rasa senak sikit sbb belum biasakan diri dgn aktiviti senggama. especially kalau newlywed

It refers to how many times H can get the W to achieve orgasm and climax

Depends on the person, but most mg x rasa pon. So its normal

Maybe ada sisa selaput dara yg baru keluar, sbb selaput dara kita mmg akan self heal a few time bila dh pecah.

This is just my wild guess from my limited reading. Kalau you have any discomfort or pain. Just go and consult your gynaecologist ya

Sakit tu sbb maybe sbb irritation due friction w Mr. P H you la tu.

Those tissue tu maybe sisa baki hymen yg dh koyak and maybe campuran air mazi dam air ghairah kita tu.

Yes, bila H dah pancut mmg in most cases dia akan keluar balik. Its normal.

If lama sgt mcm dh 3 @ 4 hari x minta, maybe boleh tanya. Unless you both busy kenduri 4 hari straight.

Personally I kenduri 1 hari, full. So mlm tu penat, tp H still mintak nk cuddle and pegang² yg dia dh boleh pegang. H sendiri yg ckp, yg dia nk, tp dia segan sbb kat rumah mertua lg 😂. So tggu la kejap.

But for sex per say, hari ketiga, kitorg…

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Better consult your doctor if you have any issue ya. I just bercakap dari pengalaman and my own reading je.

Risau jugak if you special case 🤔

Personally I x pernah la kena mcm tu sekali. Kalau severe case maybe. But personally, I ok je. Lagipun masa pregnant I jenis susah nk terangsang compared to bila x pregnant. So H buat mcm mana pon I kadang buat dek je 😂

Hi dear, need abit of context, before I answer your question.

How long have you known each other? Why do you think he react like that? Dia boring? Dia penat? Dia malas nk layan?

1 jam could be considered agak lama, tp still dlm range yg normal considering kalau kita jenis yg susah dirangsang, tambah dgn H yg x reti nk ramgsang, penat kerja, penat jaga anak, etc… It really depends on the person

Betul, dh lama kawin ni mmg susah sikit nk turn on, dgn penat kerja, jaga anak, H mmg kena usaha lebih sikit utk foreplay, kalau x mmg pedih la masa penetration tu 😢

My H suka brand uniqlo je, dia kata murah dan kualiti elok. Brand lain maybe kadang2 h&m. Paling mahal pon g2000.

From my reading, boleh, kalau jari pasangan. Kalau jari sendiri x boleh.

Tp saya bukan pakar bab hukum. Mungkin boleh tanya pakar rumah tannga mcm Puan Sarah Zainal kat IG.

From my reading, the principal is clear.

Kita hanya boleh mendapatkan kenikmatan senggama dan pasangan kita. Kalau dpt dari diri sendiri, dikira onani dan onani hukumnya haram.

Saya sarankan boleh dm Puan Sarah Zainal kat iG dia utk tanya bab ni.

Semoga usaha you lepasni dpt memberikan layanan yg terbaik utk suami dan memberikan kebahagiaan yg lebih dlm rumah tangga. Jgn putus asa, usaha sikit dan belajar sikit. Insyaallah ini antara ladang pahala yg Allah janjikan utk kita para isteri.

I see, dari apa yg you cerita ni maybe dari side you sendiri boleh usahakan utk bersukan jugak utk build your own endurance. Disebabkan you pjj, so maybe dlm tempoh x bersama tu your MissV self heal dan rapat balik. Bila H balik pon you x kerap bersama, so maybe sbb tu sakit.

Personally I rasa bukan H x puas dgn you, cuma maybe sbb baru kawin, dia…

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Faham, mmg kalau H mmg xde sakit ape², maybe nyilu sikit. MissV kita ni mmg akan self heal. Sama mcm badan kita yg lain. So klu lama x bersama, mmg MissV akan rapat balik dan dlm sesetengah kes, dara boleh tumbuh balik dan akan kene pecah dara balik. Tp sgt jarang la kes ni.

So in your case, kene sabar dan take sometimes. Bila H balik klu boleh,…

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If newly wed mmg akan sakit utk 1 @ 2 minggu pertama. Dia akn drag lagi lama kalau jarang bersama contoh PJJ.

Tp kalau normal, kalau you newlyweds, kerap bersama maybe every 2 days, maybe sakit tu akan tahan 1 ke 2 minggu je.

Personally, from my reading most women prefer their H to last long, sbb mmg most women will take time utk nk turn on.

Mcm kes I sendiri, kadang2 take about 30 min to 1 hour jgk utk turn on, lagi² pulak kalau xde mood or penat jaga anak. So in my opinion 1 – 2 hour utk your H turn on kind of normal, tp dia jd x normal sbb you jadi penat. So both…

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Hi dear, will need abit more context, sbb situasi org lain². Berapa lama dh you dh kawin? Berapa kerap bersama dlm seminggu? PJJ ke? H jenis org yg aktif bersukan? You sendiri bersukan? You ada penat sbb tertentu? Kerja? Jaga anak? Jaga parents? Mkn terjaga?

I see, maybe sbb H you aktif bersukan & sihat, so that maybe sbb your H have high sex drive and endurance.

So in this can I think you ada 2 options

1. Learn abit and try to find H weak points. Sbb semua org ada weak points tersendiri. Maybe certain position yg dia suka, maybe certain foreolay yg boleh induce him to ejaculate, maybe certain outfit yg…

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Boleh jadi H akan mimpi basah, sama mcm masa akil baligh

Boleh jadi Mr. P akan jadi x keras dh bila masa nak masuk, maybe sbb penat, dan takut/ segan/ low confidence/ insecure

Lelaki pon ada yg insecure ye, bukan perempuan je. So bila segan/ insecure tu, feeling tu boleh mempengaruhi rasa turn on tu.

Penat, kalau H penat menunggu utk merangsang W.…

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Personally I x setuju penggunaan kondom bergerigi, sbb bagi I yg muslim, ia seumpama sex toys yg hukumnya haram. Sbb dari pembacaan I, dia membantu mendapatkan kepuasan senggama.

Padahal kita hanya boleh/halal mendapatkan kepuasan senggama melalui anggota badan H dan teknik2 yg boleh dipelajari oleh H.

Tp, ni just my opinion, takde official fatwa…

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Personally I ada beli from uniqlo dan SHEIN. So maybe boleh try?

Unless doctor ada diagnose you dgn any special condition yg kata x boleh bersama.

Kalau doctor x ckp apa its actually ok je sbb I dlu pon mcm you.

Bila pregnant, jadi hari² nk terkam H 🙈. Sampai H pon confuse. Sbb dia mcm risau jadi apa2 kat anak. Tp kami ada consult doctor dan my doctor ckp its ok and normal je.

💯 %. I can relate with this dear. Mmg kadang H bagi perhatian kat anak pon boleh jadi jeles 😂. Tp H I tahu benda ni. I guess this is what people say common sense. But don’t expect too much sbb H I pon ada bnda yg dia buat dek je 😂. Dgn lelaki ni mmg kadang² tu kene direct cakap. Tp lepas² tu dia dah tahu so dia dah faham² sendiri.

So co…

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Mmg setiap org akan ada reaksi berbeza bila dtg haid or dh habis haid. Dia berkait rapat dgn hormon kita. So its actually normal bila kita jadi horny walaupun dlm tempoh period. Itu menunjukkan kita sbnrnya sihat. So don’t worry

Yg penting kena tahu cara urus. Sibukkan diri. Jgn duduk menyendiri. Insyallah boleh elakkan dari basah tiba².

Takpe, ini…

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Hi dear, need more context, so will need more explanation.

What happen? Mr. P x tegang dan keras langsung? Bila H masukkan Mr. P ke dlm Miss V awak ada tolak dia sbb sakit? H x tahu cara dayung? H ambik masa terlalu lama utk dayung sampai awak sakit? H awak org jenis mcm mana? Sihat? Obese? Aktif join maraton? Ahli unit uniform? Awak ada cuba…

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Eh, typo b2b sbnrnya 😂

From my previous interaction with many h2b or long time wife, sbnrnya rare utk W dpt squirting ni and many are trying to find ways to be able to do so

So if you happen to be able to do it. Bersyukur lah. Allah dh bagi you rasa nikmat yg org lain x rasa or belum rasa.

Personally I think men are simple minded person. Utk mlm pertama, as long as you dpt penuhi permintaan dia, dia ok je.

Just that bab design ni, elok you slow² improve. So that makin hari H nmpk effort you utk berhias utk dia

So 1 step at a time. Xperlu pon nk pakai lingerie lg kalau you x selesa.

From my personal reading, it could be both. Samada penat @ something turn him off

Xde ilmu, so mlm pertama hanya rasa awkward, malu, sakit, dan confuse.

So saya suggest utk b2b, kalau ada duit lebih beli halal sex guide ebook @ formula malam pertama ebook. Boleh cari kat shop. It will really help you to equip and prepare for it. Lagi bagus kalau share dgn h2b so that both boleh sama² puaskan pasangan masing².

Bnyk je lg yg you boleh try dear, sitting, spooning, standing, wheelbarrow, etc

Boleh download halal sex guide ebook and rujuk ebook no 4. At least ada 10 posisi boleh try.

As for your H, maybe boleh slowtalk dan bgtau yg you nk dia yg dominant and lead tye session. Boleh share halal sex guide tu dgn dia dan minta dia apply. Insyaallah, dh ada ilmu…

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Hahaha, boleh je dear, just kena hati² la. Jgn galak sgt smpai patah. Itu dh lain tu 🙈

Yup, regardless of the position, penetration mmg most of the W akan rasa sakit (not all) sbb koyakkan pada selaput dara

No need to be shy or upset dear.

Normal je. Dh lama “puasa”kan… So bila dh halal kita “buka puasa” puas² la kan.

As for H, Im guessing ada perkara yg x setel, maybe betul dia segan, maybe dia x selesa, maybe ada something yg turn off dia.

So I suggest, you sit down and have a heart to heart conversation and really pin down the problem. Tp kalau…

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Bincang, kalau you and partner boleh tggu, then tggu la kejap. Sbb kene igt aurat senggama dgn ahli keluarga kita pon kene jaga. Kalau takut keluarga dgr, then boleh la consider bermalam pertama di homestay yg dekat² dgn rumah. So that privacy la sikit 😬

As for nk check in time otw tu, pon boleh, dh halal kan…. So just kene consider tmpt yg…

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Yup betul, sbb kita pon boleh jadi terangsang @ tergoda kalau H buat perangai time tgh period kan, so boleh je H foreplay smpai orgasm @ klimaks

Yup, it depends on the person. Yg penting kene cari posisi yg both of you and your partner selesa dan memberi rangsangan yg lebih pada miss v. Contoh doggy & sitting & standing.

For me personally just penetration sex x boleh buat I squirt. I perlu H utk rangsang multiple parts at the same time.

I see, maybe it will take time to get used to that environment. Harapnya awak bykkan bersabar la ye. Insyallah byk pahala awak. Tp I rasa you kene really communicate part yg you penat tu betul2. Also maybe you boleh tolong H utk buat solve the issue. Maybe boleh nego utk selang selikan dgn your me time @ maybe cari homestay bila balik kg.